The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did) Audible Hörbuch – Ungekürzte Ausgabe

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How can we have better relationships?

In this Sunday Times best seller, leading psychotherapist Philippa Perry reveals the vital do's and don'ts of relationships. This is an audiobook for us all. Whether you are interested in understanding how your upbringing has shaped you, looking to handle your child's feelings or wishing to support your partner, you will find indispensable information and realistic tips in these pages. Philippa Perry's sane, sage and judgement-free advice is an essential resource on how to have the best possible relationships with the people who matter to you most.

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8 Stunden und 52 Minuten
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Spieldauer	8 Stunden und 52 Minuten
Geschrieben von	Philippa Perry
Gesprochen von	Philippa Perry
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Audible.de Erscheinungsdatum	07 März 2019
Verlag	Penguin
Format	Hörbuch
Version	Ungekürzte Ausgabe
Sprache	Englisch
ASIN	B07PD9KYGZ
Amazon Bestseller-Rang	Nr. 2,776 in Audible Hörbücher & Originals (Siehe Top 100 in Audible Hörbücher & Originals) Nr. 46 in Elternschaft & Familienleben Nr. 77 in Beziehungen (Audible Hörbücher & Originals) Nr. 487 in Ratgeber für Eltern & Kinder

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Clarissa Kor

Definitely a book you wish your parents had read and you should read

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 14. Oktober 2022

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I was recommended this book by a friend during her pregnancy. She told me that even non-parents should read because it dives deep into your childhood traumas that affect how you communicate as an adult. True to her words, I was really intrigued by some things I have always noticed but couldn't put words to or explain. Personally, I studied developmental psychology and am very aware of my thought processes. However, this book makes me dig deeper into my past and beyond my present self-awareness and consciousness to explain why I am the way I am. I strongly recommend everyone to read this book just because you will know and understand yourself better and improve your relationships.

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Olaf Lewitz

True to the title

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 6. Dezember 2021

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I’ve rarely read a book more worthy of its title - or more “living up to to” my expectations.

I’m no novice to psychology, psychiatry, human development and all things relating children to parents and vice versa - and I was astonished by the amount of stuff I learned from this book.

It’s highly practical and pragmatic, very inclusive and forgiving, and equally useful from a child’s and a parent’s perspective (or which of the two is reading it).

To spell that out:
- I learned about mistakes I knew I had made as a father (why what I did was wrong and how to repair)
- I learned about things I had not been aware of too
- I learned about stuff my parents had or hadn’t done and how that was (mostly) helpful - lots of gratitude there.
- there were a few insights during the read that immediately changed how I listen to people and validate their feelings. The book very practically improved my relationships (and I was a highly empathetic person to begin with)

I was switching between kindle and audible versions. Glad Philippa reads her book herself, her reading of the many different voices touched me many times and had me laugh out loud several … it’s awesome how she can make such a deep topic light and fun, without ever being not serious.

The sense-making conversations I’ve had with my daughter have been priceless, and there will be more.
My favourite quote was something like, “it’s never too late to repair a relationship, but it’s easier if both of you are still alive…”

If I could, I’d make this book required reading for all parents, kids, teachers, care-givers, … people. Given its success we might not need to do that:-)

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Zeerus

Somewhat exhausting but surprisingly good.

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 3. Januar 2021

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This is somehow an exhausting but a good read! Monsters under the bed... Really that silly? How does the child receive and process your way of saying that those monsters don't exist? I definitely have underestimated the impact. Of course this is just one example out of many that are written about. Worth a read, also for people that are not expecting.

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Andreas

helped me to see the world from my kids perspective

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 10. August 2022

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So much good advice especially for me who grew up in a strict household. By the end of the book the headbanging reduced by a lot

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smilline

Pointing the finger?

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 16. Februar 2023

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I did not make it through more than the first half.
I got the feeling, that all I do and try in educating, raising my children, is wrong, and if only I'd do better, all would be better.... My parents are to blame, my grandparents, my husband and I - and if only we'd change, everything would be fine. Great!
The children themselves, the influence from "outside", have nothing to do with how the children behave, it's all my and my parent's faults from long ago.
There is probably some truth in the mantra the author is preaching, but it reminded me of all those "all children can sleep, if you exactly copy the steps of this book, and if they don't, you are doing wrong and didn't exactly follow the acquired steps". Easyly said.
I'm disappointed.

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Stefanie S

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would totally recommend it

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Stela

Must read

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 30. Juni 2021

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Great book! Totally must read not only for parents but also for professionals.

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I can't stop recommending this book to everyone!

Kundenrezension aus Deutschland 🇩🇪 am 23. Oktober 2021

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It is perfect!

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emma who reads a lot

Full of huge realisations and moments of insight

Kundenrezension aus Großbritannien 🇬🇧 am 11. März 2019

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I thought this book was superb but more than that, after about ten minutes I felt it was already changing my behaviour! My friend who recommended it said the same.
Perry lays out her methods and thoughts very gently, with lots of good examples from real life, little case studies; but it’s the insights which really help. Looking at WHY we lose our rag about certain trigger bits of parenting - going back to our own childhoods and looking at why - OH MY GOD. Brilliant.
There’s also so much help here about FIXING those situations once you as the parent have cocked up. Rupture / repair, as she puts it.
And also advice on how to manage your parental situations better. When your kid says look at this, LOOK AT IT. I know that sounds sort of obvious but often I will say “hang on a sec I’m making dinner” etc. I feel like from now on I will do that differently because it doesn’t take two seconds to run and look. And the response you get is ♥️
I found it readable, funny, thoughtful, insightful, but most of all INCREDIBLY useful and, very very very rare for a book, genuinely life-changing.

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Kay

Preachy.

Kundenrezension aus Großbritannien 🇬🇧 am 25. August 2019

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This got a lot of good reviews so I had a go at it but found it to be all a bit of a headache. I don’t think its intention is to make you feel a useless parent who is messing up your kid but that’s exactly how I (and friends) felt after reading it.

All very valid points and tips; some are basic common sense but quite a lot that are just not achievable day to day. It also doesn’t really consider other lifestyles either just rounds everyone up as the same. All very well talking about co-sleeping etc. But some families aren’t able to facilitate that due to shiftwork, etc. Also long term lack of sleep can have a hugely physical & mental detrimental affect on everyone in the household, especially the child but there was nothing to acknowledge that. It’s all a bit idealistic. Parenting is very different for everyone; due to culture, finance, support etc.

It’s really clear that the author has only one child because the message about meeting your child’s needs and listening to them one on one when they have meltdowns etc. is quite achievable with one child (I remember the days of one!!). But not so much with three (especially if they’re all having a melt-down at the same time). The story of her sitting with her daughter on the pavement to meet at her level just tickled me. I have 2 school runs and then work straight after, so sitting and reflecting on the pavement every time one of my children have a morning outburst is not going to happen. And that summarises the book for me, all very lovely in theory but practically it is a bit unrealistic.

The message was one of blame I think, if you get annoyed with your child it’s because it highlights something in your childhood. I’m sure that is sometimes true, however sometimes kids are just annoying(?!) sometimes they’re mean and greedy or rude and spoilt. The idea that you can’t challenge that is a bit ridiculous.

Can’t say I’ve taken much away from it really, the tone was too patronising and the content a bit too vague & middle class.

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Rosanna Shackleton

Watch out - comes from a place of privilege

Kundenrezension aus Großbritannien 🇬🇧 am 30. August 2022

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This book focuses on the relationship with parent and child and works to improve that by treating your child well, making time for them, validating their emotions and respecting their opinions. All great so far and in line with our own parenting style.

However there is a lot of scaremongering in the book about the dangers of sleep training and also going to work. At this point the author lost me a little - she didn’t offer any alternatives, only shame. She seems to lump all crying into one pot - all crying = very damaging. Sleep training = evil. Sometimes sleep training is needed. Clearly she hasn’t ever had a baby waking every 40minutes for over a year. Like we have!
Or even a car journey with a child who doesn’t like the car. If you are stuck on a motorway with a screaming baby and there is nothing you can do for them will this effect them for life? What about babies with medical conditions? What about multiple pregnancies - how is a mother supposed to always soothe both babies. Crying is sometimes inevitable.

The book didn’t make me angry as she suggested it might - it just seems naive and dramatic. I worry how this will effect the mental health of those reading it, especially in difficult socio economic circumstances- and those that don’t come from a place of privilege.

If you are looking for ways to be a better parent I think Perry is right to start with your relationship with your child, I’d recommend reading “how to talk so your little kid will listen” and “playful parenting” instead though. These books give you real advice and actual tools to help you parent.

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Invaluable, even if your kids are quite grown up now

Kundenrezension aus Großbritannien 🇬🇧 am 14. März 2019

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I was a bit apprehensive about reading this. My inner critical parent doesn't need much excuse to rear up and undermine me, and I've got 14 years of being a parent to reflect back on, a fair few of which have been very fraught, so maybe it's too late for this kind of book? But very glad I treated myself to it; a book that helps soothe that inner voice, whilst helping you reflect on things that you *know* aren't working with your parenting but you didn't really know why, or what you could do differently. Warning: you'll probably cry, a kind of reflective, forgiving cry that shifts your mascara half way down your cheeks.A wonderful book that's got me thinking about relationships in general, and my relationship with my son and my parents in particular. Thank you.

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Interesting but too general about sleep training

Kundenrezension aus Großbritannien 🇬🇧 am 17. April 2019

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Interesting book which gives great advice on how to communicate with babies, children and teenagers. However the bit about sleep training didn't seem thoroughly researched - Perry suggests doing it gently and nudging a child to do this but she has obviously not experienced a baby who screams and cries every half hour through the night for many months or even years- imagine the stress for the baby and the parents. This can lead to PND, constantly grumpy parents (not good for a baby), extreme fatigue and in some cases, can break up relationships. Fortunately my baby is a great sleeper (we were just lucky but might not be next time) but I have known countless friends who have tried nudging their baby to sleep with no success. The only thing that has worked in most cases is sleep training which means a few nights of crying but then after, everyone is happy inc baby and parents. My brother is 36 and was sleep trained this way and is a happy, secure and sound sleeper. In an ideal world, where we lived in large family groups, had more support and didn't have to go back to work after 6 - 12 months then I agree, it might not be necessary but unfortunatly the reality is it is actually very hard for many families. Most of us don't have the luxury of not working, having a huge family support system or large amounts of money to get help. However the rest of the book is good advice, I just think this is a contentious issue and should have been more tactfully put, thinking of individual experiences. I can imagine a lot of readers feeling guilty when the reality is, they didn't have any other choice and it's probably done the baby no harm if it is given great love and attention around that.

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